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Maja Bengtson has been deeply involved with Nonviolent Communication (NVC) for over a
decade. She has worked with the leadership of BayNVC since 2001
(including two years as Development Director), and she co-founded Words
That Work with Ike Lasater in 2003. She has facilitated NVC trainings
at various Bay Area workplaces, and has offered public workshops on
workplace communication.
As a coach, trainer and facilitator, Maja incorporates NVC into all of
her work, along with her intuitive and heartfelt understanding of human
dynamics. Maja is certified as an Integral Coach, a Core Connexion
facilitator, and "rebirthing" (transformational breathwork) instructor,
a student of Conscious Embodiment and a long term meditator. She holds
a MA in clinical psychology.
Maja is the founder and president of Inner Leadership, Inc. in Berkeley, CA. Welcome to read more about her ideas and offerings on this website.
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Flex Your Empathy Muscle
– Embodied NVC as Personal Practice
My work with communication is primarily founded on Nonviolent
Communication (NVC), as formulated by Marshall Rosenberg, but naturally
informed by my background in other schools of thought. I consider NVC to
be a great model for communication that is both compassionate and
powerful.
This program offers a way to add your body and specific movements to
your learning process, to make it more concrete and use more of your
wholeness. It also offers a way to make NVC into a personal, body based
practice, one that you can do on your own time, with the result of
becoming more empathic, present, relational and authentic.
Read more
My blog has articles that relates to this topic, as well as room for YOUR comments and questions:
• Learning through the body (July 2010)
• Changing the Brain (October 2010)
• What are you practicing? (November 2010)
• Authenticity and Belonging (January 2011)
Feedback from Students
In the months since I began sharing "Flex Your Empathy Muscle" I have
gained some new insights which is informing the future work. I also want
to share these with people like you, who are interested in learning
Nonviolent Communication (NVC) through embodied practice.
Distinction with Ease
Many students are enjoying the gestures and moves we use in this
program. They seem to support our clarity about where we are in the "NVC
model" and in the back-and-fourth flow of conversations. For example, I
worked with a group of coaches on capacity building around listening
and empathy, and all agreed that the different poses/moves made it easy
to distinguish what action and focus was called for. The "clients" in
those role plays also reported feeling heard in that significant kind of
way that creates opening and deepens presence.
Forming New Habits
The main motivation I had for putting together the "NVC Kata*" was to
create a way for students to "practice NVC" on their own, to embody and
inhabit the principles and parts of the NVC model through repeated
movement. In an ongoing group we started hearing of changes in people's
lives a few weeks into regular, repeated practicing:
"I was open and curious when I started doing the embodied NVC class…
After just a few classes, I found I was able to access empathy much more
easily and naturally in my everyday life! It was quite amazing to me
that this was happening without my needing to think about it. Empathy
started to be my first response to situations! This is the deepening
into NVC consciousness for which I have been longing."
"I am finding that there is more room for me to choose empathy when in a
conversation, as if taking in and reflecting what I'm hearing has
become an option as readily available as my habitual way of arguing my
point."
I will continue to gather feedback and update this page.
Warmly,
Maja